I don’t know how many people saw the premier episode of Neighbors with Benefits on A& E recently,but the show brought up an issue about whether it is O.K. to text someone in the swinging lifestyle other than your primary partner.
In the show, the wife of a young couple is seen sending texts to the husband of another couple as she tried on sexy outfits for an upcoming “swinger party”. The husband started to grow concerned about the texts and sought out the advice of one of the popular couples that puts on these parties. His advice was that the texts were very inappropriate. (more…)
My wife and I are swingers and we do not have rules.
A lot of people would read that and say that there is no way to make a relationship work without rules.
Ours does, so let me explain.
1st of all, we prefer the term “guidelines” rather than rules. The word “rules” make me think of someone
trying to control, govern, being strict, to direct. It just seems very one sided to my wife and I. (more…)
Swinger cruises, a phenomenon that started up only a few years ago, have become a hit on the high seas – albeit for a limited audience.
The cruises bring together like-minded passengers attracted to a special list of cruise activities that includes “playrooms,” erotic adult movies and naughty theme parties. Some of the travel companies organizing the sexy cruises limit participants to couples. The idea is to “play” with others. (more…)
Tess & Bob, AKA “The Kinky Couple”, met in college some 31 years ago. Tess is the 1st girl Bob ever kissed in his life. About 7 years later, she asked him what he thought about having a 3 some and their lives were forever changed.