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Tiger by the Tail


Tess and I love Thailand, the “Land of Smiles”. We have seen such beautiful countryside, the friendliest people and we had a tiger by the tail. Literally.

While on our recent Thailand tour, we took 10 couples on a journey from Bangkok to the upper regions of Chaing Rai. One of our most unique adventures was our trip to Tiger Kingdom. When we first looked into this place, we heard stories about tigers that were drugged and put into cages for tourists to pet. Didn’t sound appealing to us, but I had to see it for myself. (more…)

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As the saying goes in New Orleans, let the good times roll. And at no time is that mantra on display more than during the Naughty in N’Awlins, an annual swingers convention. Roughly 1,300 swingers from across the country, some who have been married for years and have children, gathered in New Orleans last month for a convention that took over a luxury hotel for four days.

When Reality is not Real


My 1st experience with reality TV was when we went to the Sally Raphael Show. Someone we knew was going to be on the show to tell her story about having a daughter at 16 and how her pregnant daughter (at age 15) would make her a grandmother by the age of 31. It wasn’t that simple.

Upon arrival, the producers told her that she would have to claim that the father would have to marry her daughter or she would kick them both out of her house. They wanted her to be mad, confrontational and make sure the show was full of fire. The only problem was that she liked the father and was looking forward to helping them raise this child. (more…)

Swinging Texts


I don’t know how many people saw the premier episode of Neighbors with Benefits on A& E recently,but the show brought up an issue about whether it is O.K. to text someone in the swinging lifestyle other than your primary partner.

In the show, the wife of a young couple is seen sending texts to the husband of another couple as she tried on sexy outfits for an upcoming “swinger party”. The husband started to grow concerned about the texts and sought out the advice of one of the popular couples that puts on these parties. His advice was that the texts were very inappropriate. (more…)

No Rules Swinging


My wife and I are swingers and we do not have rules.

A lot of people would read that and say that there is no way to make a relationship work without rules.
Ours does, so let me explain.

1st of all, we prefer the term “guidelines” rather than rules. The word “rules” make me think of someone
trying to control, govern, being strict, to direct. It just seems very one sided to my wife and I. (more…)

About Us

Tess & Bob, AKA “The Kinky Couple”, met in college some 31 years ago. Tess is the 1st girl Bob ever kissed in his life. About 7 years later, she asked him what he thought about having a 3 some and their lives were forever changed.

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